Couples come to therapy for any number of concerns: drifting apart and feeling like roommates, conflict that damages their connection, difficulty with accepting differences, disillusionments, betrayals and broken trust, loss of desire, accidents or illness that has changed the relationship. Sometimes couples therapy is about repair, as in all of the above, but it is also about creating a secure attachment to each other, deepening connection, joy, fun, and playfulness as a couple.